Facing Change? 4 Positive Perspectives To Help You Thrive In The Midst Of Change

Does change hit you hard?

If you answered “yes”…why do you think that is?

It could be because change, when taken at face value,  represents an upset in the status quo – a disruption of your comfort zone. And, when the change is something big,  it can send your stress levels sky-high, and rob you of your peace of mind.

But we have to ask ourselves why.

We know that change is inevitable and there’s really no way around it. But people still fret about it, worry about what’s lurking around the corner, and wonder when the proverbial “other shoe” is going to drop.

This is no way to go through life!

So the next time change brews up in your life, try shifting your view, approach it differently, and remember the following: 

  1. View the change as an opportunity for personal growth. See and accept life’s challenges as a way of personally developing into more than you thought you could be.  Bettering your life can only happen by first removing what is holding it back.  The ‘old set’ has to be torn down first before a new, more vibrant one can be built. This is the only way circumstances will improve.
  2. Recognize that change is hard to swallow in just one gulp.  Give yourself the time needed to accept change on your own internal timetable.  Your internal clock ticks at a time different than anybody else’s.  We transition through many stages of change that can range from denial on the one hand to commitment on the other.  This process takes a different amount of time for each person.  Surrender to the process and accept however long it will take to work your way through these stages of change.  If others can get through change quickly, well good for them.  Go only at the pace that’s right for you.
  3. Conserve your energy.  People spend so much energy fighting and resisting change rather than using their energy in more productive ways of acceptance and letting go.  We can choose to channel our energy in more positive ways that can make us feel empowered to deal with change rather than seeing ourselves as mere victims to change.  When we direct our energy toward more positive ways of dealing with change, we invariably create better change outcomes.
  4. Accept change.  Don’t just give the change in your life a handshake – embrace it!  Welcome the chance to emerge from a difficult situation with much more strength than you possibly imagined you possessed.  Strength brings confidence, and confidence is the necessary precursor to success. 

And, if nothing else, remember this…

You have the power to be unstoppable!

You may not be able to control the changes in your life, but you CAN control how you handle them.   And when YOU’RE in control… When YOU call the shots…YOUR life becomes much easier, joyful and fulfilling.

 A great way to get started shifting your perspective and gaining control of your life (no matter what it throws your way)  is to claim your Free Instant Access to my bran new “Live The Live You Live” e-course when you visit http://UnstoppableYouRevolution.com

You’ll learn how to maximize your fullest potential and create the levels of success you desire – in every aspect of your life.

Brought to you by Benecia Ponder – dedicated to helping you live with an abundance of passion, purpose, power, and prosperity!




Love Your Life: 5 Powerful Steps To The Dream Life You Desire (And Deserve)

Have you been feeling unsatisfied and unfulfilled lately?

Have you been a bit disappointed because your life doesn’t look like you’ve always dreamed it should?

It may seem as if everything is working against you.  Your career…your finances…your relationships all seem to be one big struggle.

In moments like these it’s easy to get frustrated and forget that life doesn’t have to be this way.

Today, I want to remind you of Jesus’ words in John 10:10 – “I came that they may have and enjoy life, and have it in abundance (to the full, till it overflows).” ~John 10:10 (Amplified Bible)

Your life is meant to be lived and enjoyed.

And, if you’ve been settling for anything less than that, it’s time for a shift.

5 Powerful Steps To The Dream Life You Desire..And Deserve

I’ve discovered there are five steps to going from a mediocre existence to a  happy, healthy, and prosperous life.

Here they are…

  • Detox Your Life. It’s hard to see how amazing your life truly is when there is so much clutter in the way.  And, I’m not just talking about the stack of laundry that’s been piling up for the last few weeks.  There is toxic clutter inside of you that can clog your mind, body, and spirt.  Unless you take deliberate steps to cleanse and rid your life of these poisons on a regular basis, you won’t even be able to see the life amazingly abundant life God wants for you.
  • Discover Your Purpose. Far too often I meet successful women who “have it all” but are still searching for more.  It’s because success without purpose is meaningless and empty.  If you don’t know your ture God-given purpose, there will always be hole in your life and there is not enough money (fame, romance, friendship, status, accomplishments…) in the world to fill it.
  • Live With Passion. You weren’t created just to exist.  Your life is meant to be lived and enjoyed.   We miss so many amazing moments in our lives because we don’t know how to fully experience life.  One day your life will flash before your eyes.  Make sure it’s worth watching.
  • Activate Your Power.   This is your life…not your mom’s…or your spouse’s…or Oprah’s.  It’s your life and you have the power to make it what you want it to be.  When you stop settling for other people’s standards and begin to live the life you really want, you can’t help but love the life you live.
  • Conquer Your Dreams. Unfulfilled dreams are a great source of frustration and discontentment for many women.  Life just seems to get in the way as what you really want gets pushed to the back burner.  The message you’re sending to yourself is “I’m not worth it.  What I want is not really that important.”  No wonder you’re not loving your life.  Chand the message.  What is it that you want to accomplish?  What is your true heart’s desire?  Taking even the first step toward making your dreams a reality will create a huge shift.

Take The First Step

Your first step is to choose.  Will you exist or will you live?

I invite you to live the happy, prosperous life God wants for you.  Visit beneciaponder.com/e-course to receive a free e-course designed to help you sweep away the obstacles holding you back from achieving  your  biggest goals and dreams.

Brought to you by Benecia Ponder – dedicated to helping you live wihh an abundance of passion, purpose, power, and prosperity.


Are you tired of your vision boards not working for you?

Have you ever had a vision board not work for you? 

I know I certainly have.

 There was even a time when I almost stopped creating vision boards. 

 As a life and business coach, I am well aware of all of the scientific studies about visioning and goal setting.  I’ve read the reports of people who’ve used vision boards for years and always seem to get amazing results.

 But,  vision boards just were not working for me. 

 Never one to give up a challenge, I determined to find out why others were havign sucess with then vision boards when I wasn’t.  And, you know what I discovered…

 Vision Boards DO Work…If you know how to work them!

I learned that there are five critical mistakes most people make when it comes to creating vision boards.  Once I corrected these mistakes in my own life, I’ve been able to accomplish and even exceed my vision board expectations every year since.

 On Monday, January 19th, I’m hosting a very special Virtual Vision Board Retreat to help you set your 2015 goals with intention, purpose, and power.  And, I’ll even guide you through taking your first steps to making your dreams a reality! 

 On this powerful webinar, you’ll:

  • Mentally & spiritually prepare to make 2015 your most prosperous year ever
  • Learn how to avoid the most common mistakes of vision board creation
  • Discover what it really takes to make your vision board work for you.


 Reserve Your Space NOW!

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